My brother was adopted out before I was born.

He found us all last year. I was 6 months pregnant with my second daughter (Diablo 3 Gold). I had many complications in my pregnancy, and no one in my family contacted me to tell me that he was going to call. I almost lost my daughter, as a result. I've only had limited contact with him, because I don't know how to take him. He keeps asking my (our) mom for money when she lives on disability. He does, too. He has some states of mental retardation. I really don't know how to approach him. He came to my (our) grandma's funeral over the summer, and I ignored him. I feel horrible, but I don't know how to take him coming into my life. I never knew him. He was adopted out 3 years before I was born. Our parents are pressuring me to have a relationship with him, but I really am not ready. How will I know when I am? Will I know? He tells me he hates his adoptive family, and I keep telling him that they were the ones who loved him enough to give him a home. They cared for him when no one else would. He keeps telling me how much he wishes he weren't adopted out (Diablo 3 Gold), but my childhood wasn't much better. I was in foster care when I was 12. Spent the rest of my childhood there. I don't want him to think he has to ruin his relationship with his adoptive family to have one with his birth family.